Frankly speaking, Most of us, men and women alike, have not had the best role models to model after as it relates to Christian Marriage. It was not until our 17th year of Marriage that I began to realize that I had become angry, bitter, and resentful, and I had no idea as to why. After spending 4 very dark years trying to figure it out, my husband and I both realized several things. We had forgotten to date and even play with each other. We did not understand that love is an intentional act. It is also a commitment and not a feeling, because feelings come and go when commitment stands. We realized that we had to make time for each other, and on a weekly basis. We set aside one day of the week that we allow absolutely no one to infringe upon no matter what. This included family and friends. Some of the most important things that we learned are that Marriage is about our commitment to God & our spouses, forgiveness, and absolute unconditional love. For it is through the institution of Marriage that we learn most about forgiveness and how to love like our God, with unconditional love. Are you or someone you know in a situation where your marriage has become mundane and you and your spouse have forgotten to date and make time for each other? We are here to tell you that it can change if you work at it. Keyword WORK!
